Girls Girls Girls

It had been 3 years since Nicole, Michele, Sara, and I had been away on vacation together. We were long overdue for a reunion and a trip away with just us girls. For a weekend in August, we escaped reality and had a girls only weekend.

I took the bolt bus from NYC to Philly and hitched a ride with Nicole and Sara down to Rehoboth Beach. After 6 hours of traveling, we were finally at our destination with drinks in hand. We lounged by the pool for a bit before Michele arrived and we enjoyed some free wine served in our hotel lobby. The 4 of us headed to The Cultured Pearl for a delicious sushi dinner complete with cocktails and some live music. We took the Jolly Trolly (yes, that's a legit form of public transit in Delaware) to Bottle and Cork to listen to an insanely awesome band called Go Go Gadget play a few power hours where each minute for an hour, they play a different tune - amazing.

We attempted to make Saturday a beach day. After a few hours of sun, the rain came and we ended up having to pack up our stuff and rush back to our hotel. As soon as we arrived at our hotel, the rain let up a bit and we lounged in the pool before the storm clouds rolled in again. After a quick lunch at Fin's, we had officially run out of sun - it was the perfect excuse to do a little shopping. The beachy shops are fun and kitschy. We browsed the shops and I picked up some salt water taffy and fudge for Alex.

After a serious freshening up, and some complimentary wine and cheese from our hotel, the weather cleared up and we grabbed a quick dinner before going to North Beach - a bar on the beach where we could enjoy drinks with our toes in the sand. The guys were a bit aggressive but we had a good time relaxing and having girl time.

Sunday was a gorgeous day and we got to spend the entire morning at the beach before heading back to Philly. Michele headed back to Baltimore while Sara, Nicole, and I grabbed a very healthy lunch of Thrasher's fries and ice cream cones. A quick stop at the outlets and we were on the road to Philly.

As we drove back up north, my mind wandered. Being in "slower lower" Delaware reminds me of John - the life I could have had with the country boy who I once loved. It's strange to think that a little over 2 years ago, I contemplated moving down there and trading in my stilettos for a pair of work boots. Thinking about John makes me feel happy about our decision to part even though we cared about each other. It was very mature of us and it worked out for the best.

Once we were back in Philly, Nicole and Sara picked up their significant others and the 5 of us grabbed dinner at an adorable Italian wine bar in Philly - clinging on to those last few moments of a vacation weekend. Sara and Steve headed home and with an hour still to kill before my bus took off, Nicole, Joe, and I got a pitcher of beer at McGillan's, one of the oldest bars in Philadelphia, and watched the closing ceremony of the London Olympics.

I made it just in the nick of time to catch my bolt bus back to NYC. The night was breezy and warm so I decided to walk back to Alex's apartment. The crowded streets of mid-town are still buzzing with people and the lights are still bright in the city - even at 11pm.

After a quick shower to wash the beach out of my hair, I crawled into bed and looked out of Alex's window to a beautiful view of world wide plaza.

Although it's nice to get away every now and then, the city is just so alive. I felt calm and happy. The soft hum of a bus passing by reminded me that I'm home and I started to doze off. NYC - this is where I belong.